Reverence jars and Cookies

My kids are so cute. I love that they are getting older and they can help in a meaningful way.

This morning Tom was looking through the Friend magazine and found what he thought would be a fun family home evening activity. So he took it upon himself to make the copies and gather the supplies for it.

And then, even though it is Tuesday and usually FHE is on Monday night, he planned out the whole FHE of who would do what.

Charlie had the lesson and decided to do what the Diaz's did last week--obedience cookies. He taught it is as we obey (follow the recipe) that we receive blessings.

Charlie made the cookies all by himself with no help from me and they turned out awesome.

Tom had each of the kids make their own reverence jar, they colored and cut and taped. Our neighbor friend Eric was invited over, by Tom, to participate with us. He isn't a member of our church so the boys were helping make sure he was understanding everything and translating our lingo.

For instance one of the things talked about greeting your bishop and Tom told Eric bishop is the main leader at our church. We found out that at Eric's church the name for their "bishop" is pastor.

They kept calling each other "FOOF"'s friend of another faith.

Anyway, it was fun to sit back and be participant as my boys ran the show and I just did what they asked.

It just warms my heart to see them take these things to heart and see that my efforts are paying off. This is particularly heart warming to me because I am about the most inconsistent person that ever was. I do not do anything regularly, as in I really want to do FHE regularly but in actuality it rarely happens. So I am so grateful that God blesses me and my family in spite of my inabilities to be consistent.

A cute thing to share about something Tom said during morning devotional. We were reading the story of Abraham sending his servant to go get a wife for his son Isaac.

Tom turned to me and said, "mom, I want you and dad to get me a righteous wife".

"oh yeah, why's that Tom?"

"I want a righteous wife so she can teach my kids devotionals like you do with us"

Melt my heart. This is exactly what I want for my kids--that they desire righteousness. That they desire to serve God and choose to be obedient to His commands.

Happy Birthday Jeremy

For Jeremy's birthday we had Red Velvet cake, curtesy of Costco, because they make it much better than I can.

Happy birthday Jer, we love you and we are so proud of you for doing so well in your nurse anesthesia program (only two more weeks to go).

4 months old

Matthew is four months old.

Matthew is the sweetest, happiest baby. He is always smiling.

Matthew has very pretty blue eyes and a huge smile.

I am so thankful for our sweet, sweet boy. He is a gift of joy and love.

Pet peeve

My pet peeve in house work is.....................

SOCKS!!!!!!

Living in Florida we can mostly wear flip flops and sandals, but, the kids have such stinky dirty feet if I let them just wear sandals.

So, I usually require them to wear socks and shoes, which leads to this problem.

Becca helps

Me: Becca, what have been doing?

Becca: I've dusted, and I swept, I did the floors and I danced for a few minutes.

Next time I do my chores I need to remember to add in dancing, sounds like fun.

How I feel today

This is how I feel today.

This is how I wish I felt.

How happy is "happy"

Friday I took my kids to McDonalds and bought them a happy meal. They had been stinkers that morning and I sure didn't feel like they deserved a happy meal. The rare times that we grab fast food they usually get a burger and a water, for the same reason that my parents did that when I was a kid-- it's more economical

So my ornery self was saying they didn't even deserve to eat out let alone get a happy meal, but my inner child that always hoped for, but rarely got the meal with the toy, championed in favor of surprising the kids with a treat specifically in the moment of time when they least deserved it because my grinch-like heart needed to grow a few sizes (wow that was a long sentence).

The moment I placed the order at the drive-through I did feel a lightness and a release of the ogre. My children were so excited and in disbelief- really, we get a happy meal.

Although we went through the drive through I then parked the car and we ate at the tables outside.

It was a balmy 93 degrees (and yes that is sarcasm you detected in my voice about the balmy bit-sweltering is the more accurate term) and we were going to eat in the car on the way to the library, but instead of soft drinks I ordered milk for the kids, which comes in bottles with twist off lids, which is 10 times more likely to get spilled in the car and I had visions of the mess and frustration that would ensue. So that is why we sat outside to eat, in 93 degree weather in Florida, which really feels like about 108 degrees. In about five minutes of sitting outside we were dripping sweat and had red faces.

But all of that is a long tangent from the main story. After we got sat down one by one each of the kids came to me and gave me a big hug and told me I was the best mom ever and how could they ever repay me.

They were obviously experiencing the happy effect of the happy meal and I was enjoying being the recipient of their happiness.

Here is the ironic part. When I buy my kids just the hamburger they eat it all and sometimes they want another.

Somehow when you put the hamburger in a box and include a toy, the burger and their hunger is forgotten and maybe they will take a token bite or two. This confirms my theory that it is not the toy that comes for free with the food, it is actually the food that comes for free with the toy you paid for.

I told the girls they had to eat their food before they could open their toy. The boys are old enough that they usually eat all their food and don't get quite as sidetracked by the toy.

Charlie opened his spy toy from the package and saw that it wasn't the toy he was hoping for. He asked if he could go trade it and I told him he could. When he came back out with the trade he opened it and was still disappointed with what he got.

By this time the girls had eaten their token bites and were grabbing for their toy. I was so hot and ready to get back in the air conditioned car that I didn't really notice how much they had or hadn't eaten.

However, I did notice Becca's reaction to her toy- pure disappointment. I didn't let her go trade her toy- more disappointment.

Which brings us to the title of the post--how happy is happy.
Well, when you are relying a happy meal to bring you happiness you better be prepared for disappointment because happiness from a box is fleeting and short lived.

Thankfully we know where true happiness comes from--the giver of all love and life and we will turn to Him for our daily joys and for our everlasting happiness.

A Must See

The Pianoguys have outdone themselves this time. They shoot music videos of Jon Schmidt and Steven Nelson playing their music, but they take it to the next level.

 This particular video is called "Bourne Vivaldi" where they mix music from the Bourne movies and from the classical composer Vivaldi. The music itself is just awesome, then add in the cinematography and it is that much better.

 My favorite is the end of the video when they are on the train - how awesome would that be to play a piano on an open train as glides gently through the mountains.

 Enjoy.